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Would You Pay to Cuddle a Stranger?By Elise Solé, Shine Staff | Healthy Living – Fri, Nov 15, 2013 7:41 PM EST8725a818-b7be-4a8c-9e6a-c698aa1e6c8d_5.jpgLooking for a little extra affection? Meet Sam Hess, a 29-year-old cuddle professional who makes a living by selling snuggles to those in need.Hess is part of a new breed of business people who believe that touch, no matter who it comes from, is the key to a happy life. She hatched the idea after watching a YouTube experiment in which two men offered free or paid hugs to people on the street. “People paid for hugs more than they took the free ones, and I realized that there’s real value in affection,” Hess tells Yahoo Shine. “My friends and boyfriend were a little wary at first, but once they realized I was serious about it, they were supportive.”Hess’s Portland, Oregon based company, called Cuddle Up To Me, offers two basic packages: A 30-minute session for $35 and a 60-minute session for $60 (She charges a $1 per minute in overtime), during which Hess and her client might hold hands, cuddle up on the couch, or spoon to the tune of her "cuddle playlist," which includes classic music and hits by Phil Collins and Jack Johnson. There are also prepaid weekly sessions and a flat rate for overnight stays. However, before she does business, Hess conducts a free 45-minute meet-and-greet in a public place such as a coffee shop, to assess the intentions of potential clients. “I need to know where a person is coming from so I know what I’m walking into,” she explains. 62cc167f-3e2a-47d7-9e22-c50d0a24a932_6.jpgHess makes it clear that her services are completely platonic. “I’m not sexually attracted to my clients and even if I were, I don’t allow myself to go there,” she explains. “I’m in a totally different head space during a session and I’m very specific about body parts that cannot be touched.” If a client pushes his or her boundaries, Hess issues a verbal warning or ends the session. Though she does business in her clients’ homes, she says she feels safe, thanks to her martial arts training. She also carries a Kuboton (a pocket-sized sharp stick), just in case. “No one has ever violated the rules because of my strict vetting process,” she insists. “My youngest client is 24-years-old and my oldest is in his mid-60s — I see single dads, widows, depressed people, even one woman.”More on Yahoo Shine: What His Body Language is Really SayingThere’s been plenty of research on the effects of cuddling between people who love and trust each other: Snuggling lowers blood pressure, heart rate, and stress and releases the bonding hormone oxytocin, triggering a loving feeling between two people, yet little is known about the effects of cozying up to a stranger.Nonetheless, other cuddling businesses have been cropping up across the country. Jacqueline Samuel, 29, owns the Snuggery, a company that offers cuddle services for $60 an hour and $90 for 90 minutes, out of her home in Penfield, New York. Clients can also opt for a “Double Cuddle,” a snuggling session with Samuel’s female colleague (the price spikes to $100 for 45 minutes and $180 for 90 minutes, in that case). And The Snuggle House in Madison, Wisconsin finally opened on Friday, weeks after its October grand opening was canceled due to a city investigation on suspicion that snuggling was a front for prostitution (it wasn’t).More on Yahoo: 7 Body Language Tips to Give You the Upper HandAnd while the companies all state that services are strictly non-sexual, the Snuggery’s policy is a bit more lenient of accidents, stating: “Although sexual activity is not permitted, arousal is perfectly normal and should not make anyone feel uncomfortable.”“Touch is the most power tool between humans,” Wendy Walsh, PhD, a Beverly Hills based psychotherapist, tells Yahoo Shine. “We’re wired to bond — in fact, babies who aren’t touched when they’re born, don’t thrive in life.”Given our fast-paced, social media-saturated culture, where people spend more time staring at computer screens than each other, that urge to reach out may be greater now than ever before, says Walsh. And that’s especially true for men, who are conditioned to feel ashamed about their need for affection.However, cuddling can mean the difference between marital bliss and strife. “Much of the research about sex and happy couples has little to do with the sex itself and more to do with the affection that goes a long with it,” says Walsh. “That’s because people are motivated to have sex for all different reasons, including insecurity and anxiety.”Walsh says the business of cuddling can be a positive experience for some — especially people who have experienced certain types of trauma — however, there’s danger in a one-sized-fits-all approach to affection. “Cuddling should be an integral component of an evolving relationship, not something you can grab on the run,” she says.
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Boje se za decu.Znam da neću ništa novo reći ali realno sam fasciniran ovim ekspresnim potonućem srpskog naroda. Ovakvo sistematsko zatvaranje u svoje bure i režanje na svakog ko mu se približi, ma u kakvoj nevolji bio, ne viđa se često.Moj deda je nekoliko dana po početku Aprilskog rata sa ženom i tek rođenim sinom krenuo peške prema Kosjeriću, pa šta im bog da. Do sumraka prvog dana stigli su do Meljaka ili tako nekog mesta, tu su pokucali na vrata jedne kuće nadajući se da će im domaćin dozvoliti da prenoće bilo gde (šupa, ambar, hodnik). Otvara im ciganin, posle kratkog razgovora uvodi ih u kuću (ne zamerite na politički nekorektnom terminu, prenosim priču onako kako sam je čuo uključujući i terminologiju). Posluži im malo hleba i sira, da se prihvate, a onda ode i ubije jare (u predvečerje okupacije i nemaštine, je li). Ciganin i žena mu, najedoše i napojiše ovo dvoje kao da su im najrođeniji, smeste ih u dnevnu sobu na spavanje. Ujutro, pred polazak, ciganin spakuje preostalu jaretinu i pride hleba i sira. Deda imao nešto novca, ubeđivao ga da mu plati, ciganin kaže: "Ako hoćeš da me pljuneš u lice onda mi plati zato što sam te pozvao u svoju kuću", i tako se rastadoše. Posle rata je pokušao da ga pronađe ili makar sazna kako je prošao, na žalost bez uspeha.Ricardo Zamora, čuveni španski golman, jedna od najvećih legendi svetskog fudbala, pre 40 godina je Zvonimiru Magdiću (za potrebe antologijske knjige "11 veličanstvenih") ispričao svoje sećanje na putovanje vozom između Zagreba i Beograda, prilikom gostovanja u Jugoslaviji. Nekoliko španskih fudbalera selo je u kupe u kojem je već bio jedan starčić, po izgledu evidentno siromašan ali prijatne pojave. U jednom trenutku starčić je iz torbe izvadio veoma mali zamotuljak u kojem se nalazio parčence sira jedva dovoljno da zavara glad detetu. Starčić je to malo parče raskomadao na nekoliko delova i uz osmeh ga pružio španskim saputnicima: "Izvolite, uzmite". Zamora kaže, svašta je iz svog iskustvom bogatog života zaboravio ali ovu scenu nikada nije i nikada neće.Da ne nabrajam još primera u kojima su narodi sa ex SFRJ prostora delili poslednje parče hleba sa putnicima namernicima ili putnicima nevoljnicima, kako u miru tako i u ratu, kako u bogatstvu tako i u nemaštini. Nisam slepac, jasno mi je šta se sve desilo u prethodnih 20 godina, ali i dalje ne mogu da shvatim kako je taj isti narod uspeo da se sroza na ovaj nivo zlobe, bezosećajnosti, ksenofobije i rasizma. I kako su uspeli da usvoje sistem vrednosti odnosno sistem prioriteta po kojem njihova vlast koju oni biraju može da im radi šta god hoće a oni neće bilo šta preduzeti ili blokirati sve dok im cigani ili izbeglice ne stignu u komšiluk. Kako su uspeli da redom postanu nekakvi deklarisani čovekoljupci i dobročinitelji na rečima, a da se ovako ponašaju na delima? Ima li negde kraja ovoj spirali civilizacijskog uniženja?Pitanja su naravno hipotetička, postavljam ih jer sam se danas malkice smorio od dubine kanala u koji su Srbi upali.
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mene ta vest drži ceo dan. kakav treba da budeš pa da uskratiš izbeglici krov nad glavom, jebote....ko je uopšte taj zaludni ološ? nemaju ništa drugo da rade u životu, ako već nemaju posla -zarn nemaju kod kuće baš ništa da rade, da poprave crep, pomognu komšiji da nacepa drva, nešto? ideš na drum po ovoj zimi da bi svesno činio zlo?

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Tvoja me izjava duboko zabrinjava svaki put je sve isto, indenticno. Tamo neki drzavni organ u Bgd odredi da se moraju zbrinjavati poludivlji ljudi iz pizdevaca u serbskim pizdevcima. I onda se ti cudis sto se ljudi bune.

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Koliko ti troluješ to je neverovatno. Hela je bar duhovit.
Sta je tvoj problem? Ne svidja ti se da neko ima drugacije misljenje od tvog ili opsteg? Vasa se opet iskurcio na takve likovekao da je to nesto novo i neocekivano i kao da je duznost stanovnika Obrenovca da zbrinjava stotine dodjosa koji beze uJevropu i siri pricu o urbanosti u trendu. Nije njihova duznost i imaju prava da se bune. Zamisli da neko zgradu u tvojoj uliciproglasi za utociste ovih ljudi i da nista ne kaze zajednici u koju dovodi te ljude. Svi bi ste potrcali da im donosite pite i slicno kako da ne.
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Sta je tvoj problem? Ne svidja ti se da neko ima drugacije misljenje od tvog ili opsteg? Vasa se opet iskurcio na takve likovekao da je to nesto novo i neocekivano i kao da je duznost stanovnika Obrenovca da zbrinjava stotine dodjosa koji beze uJevropu i siri pricu o urbanosti u trendu. Nije njihova duznost i imaju prava da se bune. Zamisli da neko zgradu u tvojoj uliciproglasi za utociste ovih ljudi i da nista ne kaze zajednici u koju dovodi te ljude. Svi bi ste potrcali da im donosite pite i slicno kako da ne.
ti si neopevani kreten i zelim ti istu sudbinu kao tim ljudima.cuj, da zbrinjavaju. to su jebene radnicke barake, drzava im placa smestaj u skladu sa svojim obavezama i nije duzna da objasnjava svoje postupke svakoj malogradjanskoj suklati koja se plasi crnaca i Arapa. Edited by Marko M. Dabovic
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Malo si nervozan, drzava je duzna da objasnjava svima sve svoje postupke od kad je demokratija u Serbijisvidelo se to tebi ili Dacicu ili ne. To ne odlaze primenu mera.

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